What is he thinking as she is walking down the aisle toward him, her white
dress enveloping her like an angel? Does he see her in the stages of his life -- sharing a
first home, children playing in the yard, teenagers heading off to college, empty nesters
spending time traveling together? She’s close now, kissing her father on the cheek and
reaching out her hand. He finds her hand and wraps it tightly in his and their eyes meet.
Ceremony location chosen and reservations made (back-up location if outdoor wedding is planned)
Invitations sent
Wedding vows written
Hair, manicure/pedicure and makeup appointments made
Guest book and pen obtained
Officiant (minister, justice of the peace, notary, etc.) determined
Flowers ordered
Bridal bouquet
Bridesmaids’ bouquet
Bride or bridesmaids’ headpieces
Groom and groomsmen boutonnieres
Chair or pew bows/flowers
Mothers’ corsages
General room arrangements
Flower girl basket
Pillow for ring bearer obtained
Chairs ordered
Candles determined and ordered
Decorations determined and obtained
Music and musicians chosen and hired
Songs or music for wedding determined
Security determined if applicable
Sound system ordered
Signage ordered (displayed)
Aisle Runner ordered (placed)
Permits obtained if location of wedding requires
Gifts for wedding party purchased
Transportation determined (Limo)
Parking designated or parking attendants
Bird seed and bubbles purchased (replaces rice as better for the environment)
Directions to ushers provided
Child care provided if applicable
Photographer/Videographer hired
Photo permit obtained if required
Person responsible for rings prior to wedding ceremony determined